| A lot of guys have been asking me what we | | | | one like a nice big smile. Show the girl you're in |
| men should do for body language, so this column | | | | control, show her you're confident, show her |
| will give you the answers: how to recognize | | | | you're a fun guy to be around: brighten the place |
| female body language, how to react to it, and | | | | up with a big smile! And if your teeth need work, |
| how to use your own body language to flirt with | | | | then get them fixed! It's good not just for your |
| women successfully, from start to finish. | | | | chances of meeting a girl, but also for your health |
| You have to remember that whatever you say, | | | | and appearance! |
| however you gesture your hands, arms, head, | | | | 4. Open Body Language |
| and eyes, women are NOT taking your | | | | So many guys walk or sit with their arms |
| movements at face value. If she jokes with you | | | | crossed, their legs close together, and their faces |
| and you lightly push her away as if to say "Stop", | | | | anxious and flat. Stop that! Welcome a girl into |
| she's taking that simple gesture as something | | | | your world: Have your arms open and leaned |
| more: interest, dis-interest, enjoyment, | | | | back, your legs open and relaxed, your face |
| annoyance-any of a million different signals. She's | | | | warm and inviting. You'll not only attract yourself |
| reading it for further suggestions as to what kind | | | | into a girl's world, but also into the world of people |
| of guy you are, and what your interest in her is. | | | | at a party, club, or bar who can help you meet a |
| Know that with body language, girls are always | | | | future girlfriend-or even wife! |
| reading the way you move and act! | | | | 5. Lean in to her |
| Here are my "Lucky Seven" best ways to show | | | | As you're talking to a girl, especially while seated, |
| interest: | | | | show her your interest with confidence by leaning |
| The confident eye gaze | | | | in closer. You don't want to be a creep, of |
| The "Dale Head Drop" | | | | course, but you can generally tell by a girl's body |
| Smile! | | | | language and talk how interested she is in you. If |
| Open body language | | | | things are looking good, show her your control of |
| Lean in to her | | | | the situation-and interest in her-by leaning in and |
| Thumbs in belt | | | | generally getting closer to her. Leaning back does |
| Touch her | | | | the opposite; it shows you're unconfident and not |
| Let's look at each in more detail: | | | | overly interested. Not what you want to |
| 1. The confident eye gaze | | | | communicate. |
| This is how you start your interest. Nothing | | | | 6. Thumbs in belt |
| shows confidence off the bat like meeting a girl's | | | | Ever put your thumbs in your belt, with your |
| eyes, and KEEPING YOUR STARE. If you see her | | | | hands at your hips' side? This is processed as a |
| look down and smile, you know you've made it | | | | sign of being confident in one's sexuality and size. |
| and the time to approach is now. If she looks | | | | So if you're standing around at a bar or club and |
| away from you but doesn't smile, give her a shot | | | | want to convey confidence, this will certainly be |
| nonetheless; just the fact that she met your | | | | understood by girls! |
| eyes for a second or two shows interest. | | | | 7. Touch her! |
| 2. The Dale Head Drop | | | | Yup, nothing gets you closer to a girl than physical |
| So named after the guy who mastered the art | | | | touch. Great conversations and emotional/spiritual |
| of getting women rushing to his side, just with a | | | | chemistry are great, but if you really want to |
| simple shrug! If you really want to blow away a | | | | take it to the next level, you'll have to eventually |
| girl-and show some balls-meet a girl's eyes, then | | | | show some balls and touch her. I'm not talking |
| knowingly drop your head to the side, as if to | | | | about grabbing her and making out (unless it really |
| say, "Hey, you know you want me. Come over | | | | is going that well and she's flirting out of control!), |
| here and get me!" I've found this to work | | | | but doing little things: brushing your arm by her |
| incredibly well in foreign countries. In the States, | | | | shoulders, lightly massaging her, leading her by the |
| the girls tend to be able to see through it a bit | | | | arm to another location in the place. By making a |
| more-but it still works! | | | | physical connection, you're giving her a sign loud |
| 3. Smile! | | | | and clear that you're confident in yourself and |
| It's often overlooked, but nothing communicates | | | | interested in her. |
| happiness, confidence, and interest in a girl all in | | | | |