My Toddler Says Only a Few Words - What Should I Do?

Many parents of toddlers start to feel concernedmethod. Very briefly, it is a way to systematically
when their children aren't talking like others theirreduce the length of what you say to her from a
age. It is reasonable and wise to be taking a closefull sentence (which is a good way to start
look. Here's a quick summary of what I wouldbecause this is normal and natural for an adult to
suggest a parent do to address concerns about ado and it helps to keep building her knowledge
12 to 24-month-old child's limited vocabulary andabout language), to a phrase, to a two-word
communication abilities:combination, to a key word, and sometimes to a
-Be sure she is hearing. Has her hearing beensound. Pausing helps to give her an opportunity to
evaluated in the past year?jump in and copy if she is ready to. There are
-Monitor how well he is understanding you. Doeslots of nuances to this method which can't be
he understand the names of most commonconveyed in this brief article. You can also build up
things in his life (names, items, places, things toin the other direction from a key word, to a
do)?two-word combination, to a phrase, to a
-How willing is she to imitate what you say to hersentence.
(imitating of her own free will vs when you ask-Reduce the number of direct questions you ask
her to try to say something)?him. Start by first monitoring how often you and
-Does he try to communicate with you in otheryour spouse or other important adults ask him
ways other than using speech (pointing, looking,questions. Many parents report it's about 80%
using other gestures, taking you to things?)questions vs 20% statements. This is normal, but
-Keep a log of what you notice about herit isn't as helpful when a child is struggling to
communication on a regular basis (daily or weekly).acquire speech-language skills, especially if there is
Even though you think you will remember thea motor speech production/articulation difficulty. I
new thing she did or said, you will forgetsuggest aiming for about 80% statements and
(everyone does forget over time). A log helps20% questions. There are lots of reasons for this
you look back to observe change over time.which you can learn about. Once you learn to use
-Start looking around and asking about localthis technique, you can use it very naturally all day
resources. If he isn't doing much better by age 24long for your child's benefit.
months, that would be a good time for an-Spend lots of time together playing and having
evaluation by a speech-language pathologist. For afun, putting a lot of emphasis on communication
younger child, it would also give you some monthsinteraction.
to try increasing your helpful stimulation with him-Read and learn new ideas about ways to
to see if he starts to pick up skills more quicklystimulate speech-language skill development to use
than he has been.with your child.
-To add to what you are already doing with yourEnjoy this wonderful toddler stage of
child to build her skills, consider making moredevelopment and do all you can to focus in on
natural statements with her. I have labeled one ofwhat helps your child grow and progress into new
the methods I use the Upside-Down Pyramidskills.