Providing Care to Your Terminally-Ill Parent - Part II

Keeping an emotional balancereduced communication skills are one of the
With elderly care for those who have a terminalresults of aging, which is something that is beyond
illness, two forms of emotions often overcomeyour control. However, you ability to identify the
the caregiver: pity & compassion, and theysource of the problem will consequently determine
are at completely opposite ends of the spectrum.the steps you need to take in order resolve
It's important, however, to try and balance thosethem.
two emotions to ensure that you are able toSolutions can be as simple as finding alternative
provide the best quality of care that you possiblymeans to communicate outside of a verbal
can.exchange, or as intricate as requiring medical
Pity will make you feel sorry for the person forintervention.
whom you are caring, while compassion will allowCauses of communication problemso Hearing
you to become much more sensitive of theirfailure as mentioned above - When people age,
needs, and cause you to work your hardest inthey undergo anatomical changes. Reduced
addressing them.hearing capacity is a natural effect involved with
A few ways to keep your emotions balancedthe natural aging process. When an elder lacks
might include:o Focusing your attention onproper hearing capacity, they do not recognize
providing for the needs of the terminally-illwhen someone is talking nor understand clearly
individual instead of becoming too engrossed withthe information being relayed. There are hearing
your emotionso Instead of dwelling on what youaids available these days which produce a sharper
cannot change, try to focus on what you can dosense of hearing for the elderlyo Vision problems
to help enrich that person's lifeo Allow them to& failing eyesight - Another natural effect of
experience the best of their remaining daysaging is failing eyesight. Therefore, older persons
Communication problemshave difficulty reading written communication. The
A lack of proper communication is one of theeffects of failing eyesight can be reduced through
biggest challenges in elderly care. It can lead tousing alternative communication devices, such as
frustration in both the caregiver and the personeyeglasseso Effects of medications - This cause
being cared for.for communication problems IS reversible. Taking
There are a variety of reasons whymedicines often produce adverse effects on the
communication becomes less effective with olderelderly person, such that they become easily
people, but most of them are due to theirfatigues or confused. Therefore, they find it
reduced hearing capacity or inability to expressdifficult to understand communicative patternso
their thoughts as clearly as they once used to.Structural or neurological damage - This condition
Since communication involves a clear exchange ofis often caused by other diseases such as brain
information involving two parties, a gap existslesions, Alzheimer's, Parkinson's, or even strokes.
when one or both fail to function.Most of these conditions produce permanent
Though there are exceptions to everything,results.