Show Me the Bunny: Language Acquisition

Some children are really funny aboutname, it isn't until early in the second year of life
experimenting with speech. Nonetheless, the firstthat a toddler will seem to understand what's
intelligible words bring such a feeling of elation to abeing said to her, because this is the age at which
parent. Come on, Sweetie. Show Mumma thekids develop language and comprehension skills.
bunny. Without saying a word, my little girl pointsIt's a huge leap in a child's development, and will
to a plush rabbit.probably alter existing parent-child communication.
Ever since I read in a parents' newsletter thatNow would be a good time to discontinue the kind
kids my younger daughter's age should have aof language I've grown accustomed to conducting
vocabulary, I've been trying to persuade her toconversations in ("piggies" instead of "toes,"
speak words instead of relying on gesturing,"yummies" instead of each meal's correct name).
pointing, and high-pitched squealing to make herBy the end of her second year, a toddler should
needs and wants known. While a mild speechhave about fifty spoken words, and should begin
delay might be understandable for bilingual babiesusing two-word sentences. To my dismay, mine
who are trying to sort out the mechanics of twoonly ventures to pronounce a word's second
languages, mine has only one language to learn.syllable when it sounds exactly like the first;
Apart from her experiencing frequent eartransposes some sounds (cup becomes "pa;" rip
infections at an early age, I have to wonder,becomes "pi"), and approximates others (hello is
what's up?"ha WOW"). Far from being on her way to
Bear. Ball. Blocks. I repeat words to her over andconstructing two-word sentences, she doesn't try
over, thinking that somehow, this might pass onsaying her name. Duck. Ga-a. I place her hand on
whatever information she needs to be able tomy cheek and try again. Duck. She shortens her
form the words herself. Bee. Ba-by. Ga-a-a? Shega-a to match the abbreviated sound I'm making.
asks, using the same intonation with which I reciteGa. I'll bet she's a little perfectionist, refusing to
the alphabet to her. She spends the rest of thesay much until she can speak correctly.
afternoon touching my mouth while I'm talking toI'm afraid if she catches on to my disappointment
her.with her progress, she'll stop trying altogether. So
According to the American Academy ofI'm quietly making an appointment for her to see
Pediatrics, while eighteen months is the age atan audiologist. As I wait on hold, I tell myself that
which a toddler should be able to say her ownthis is probably nothing.copyright 2003-2005.