Speaking With Your Eyes - Tips For Better Public Speaking

They say the eye is the passage to the soul. Sopages of document. Better still, memorise the
powerful is this little organ that many cultureswhole speech if possible and then look directly at
attribute fortune, both good and bad, to just oncethe audience throughout the entire talk.
glance of the eye.Looking directly into someone's eyes is a culturally
The eyes communicate strong messages of innersensitive issue. Generally, Western cultures
confidence, credibility, sincerity, message valueassociate good eye contact with sincerity and
and audience empathy. As a speaker, you needconfidence. On the other hand, in many Asian
to harness the power of eye contact whencultures and Africa societies for example, direct
delivering a speech so as to establish a crucialor prolonged eye contact with an older, senior or
bond with the audience and retain their interest inmore authoritative person is perceived as
your speech.disrespectful or discourteous. Both scenarios still
You can effectively maintain eye contact with arequire eye contact during public speaking but to
group by moving your gaze randomly across thevarying degrees. Consequently, the speaker must
room. Look at the front row, the backbenchersbe aware of the cultural norms of a particular
and the people at the flanks. Ensure to lookaudience and adapt the eye contact accordingly.
directly into the eyes of at least one person inReverse eye gaze from the listeners is also a
each section before you move on.good indication of audience interest. It is natural to
The length of eye contact is critical. Don't look atlook keenly at a person whose message has
one person too long as that may make themcaught our attention. When delivering a speech, if
uncomfortable. On the other hand, if you look atyou notice a lot of fidgeting, fiddling, wandering
the individual faces too quickly, you may belooks or drooping eyelids then you know that
perceived as being nervous, dishonest or unsureyou're losing your audience's interest. While it
of whatever it is you are talking about. Generallymight be too late to change your speech topic at
a glance of one or two seconds per person isthat point, perhaps you could insert an unplanned
sufficient to establish that crucial connection.(but suitable) joke, give a quick vignette related to
Furthermore, even if an individual person doesn'tthe topic, or skip some of the more tedious bits
get your direct eye contact, they can see thatof the speech entirely.
you are establishing it with other members of theWhile eye contact during speech delivery comes
audience.naturally to some, most will need a little practice
Maintaining eye contact requires one to be familiarto perfect the skill into a natural, smooth action.
with the content of the speech such that it needIt's not a difficult thing to learn but it is a highly
not be read word for word. One method is tovaluable skill to master for effective public
use cue cards with brief bullets points of the keyspeaking.
speech items, instead writing and reading several