Top Ways to Deal with Conflict -- and Harness Its Potential!

Conflict management is an integral part ofAccommodating is an approach which rarely leads
successful business administration. Researchto the problem being solved. Although this can
shows that managers often spend as much as 20help solve the immediate problem, the basic issue
percent of their work day trying to resolveremains. Accommodating and avoidance are similar
conflict. Although conflict is a common workplacetechniques. They both come from a fear of
issue, it is important to recognize the sources ofaddressing and dealing with an issue directly. A
conflict and implement strategies to solvemanager who gives in to the conflicting party
problems. This can help businesses overcome theoften sacrifices his or her own goals and hurts the
harmful aspects of conflict and benefit from thecompany in the long run. This is why it is often
positive results conflict can produce.healthier to have conflict out in the open than to
There are four basic elements of conflict. Thesehave people think there is harmony when there
include:really is not.
1. The involvement of two or more partiesForcing is the opposite of accommodating. The
2. A perception of incompatible goalsmanager who forces his or her employees to
3. Differing values or perceptionsaccept a solution to a problem or forces them to
4. A continuation of the conflict until both sidesdrop the issue will seldom find the best long-term
feel satisfied with the results.solutions. This type of behavior can be
Conflict in the workplace can take many forms.competitive or even aggressive in nature. The
However, it always requires at least two parties.manager (or co-worker) wants to compete to
Often, one of the parties is unaware of thesee who's right and who's wrong, so he or she
conflict. They are a part of it nonetheless. Fromattempts to force an opinion on the opposition to
the perspective of management, it is best to"win" the argument. This hardly ever fixes the
identify the two parties and separate them initially.problem and usually produces more anger.
The first step is to accept that there is a problemCompromise is often seen as the best way to
and to define what it is and who is involved.deal with conflict. However, it can often leave
It is often difficult to realize that problems areboth sides feeling like they've lost. This is
stemming from a perception of incompatible goals.especially true when managers are the ones who
Individuals may have specific goals for theirdecide what the compromise will be.
department or the organization as a whole. ThoseIn order to successfully implement the problem
goals may be quite different than the goals thatsolving strategy, there must be certain common
someone else in another department might have.beliefs that the two parties can agree on, such as:
It is often easier for an individual to see him or1. Cooperation is better than competition
herself as the "good guy" and see the person2. Parties can be trusted
who is a threat as the enemy. The important3. Status Differences can be minimized
thing to keep in mind, however, is that the other4. Mutually acceptable solutions can be found
person may have goals that have not even beenIt is better to get the parties in a conflict involved
considered. In many instances, finding a way toif you are to reach a long term solution to their
satisfy both individuals will ultimately be good forproblems. The likelihood of a solution working is
the company.greatest when the parties come up with it than
Conflict is normal. That is because each individual inwhen it is created by management. However,
an organization brings certain values andsuch a solution can only be found when the
perspectives to the table that are unique to himparties realize that cooperation is in their best
or her. These can enrich the organization byinterest.
allowing for a more diverse dialogue andAs values and perspectives differ, it can be easy
decision-making process. Unfortunately, they canfor some individuals to distrust each other. This is
also spark opposition and contribute tooften the result of a breakdown in communication
communication difficulties. Still, they are healthyor a failure to realize the goals of others.
problems to have. In fact, a truly dysfunctionalManagers can increase their ability to gain the
operation would be one where everybody getstrust of their employees by actually trusting them.
along.This will give them the ability to communicate
Often conflicts will go on for long periods of time.successfully and help employees recognize and
This is especially true when one or more partiessolve problems together.
keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves.Status differences often prevent communication
This can come from a desire to avoid the conflict,and lead to conflict. When employees feel that
or can just be the result of neither side feelingmanagement is different than them, they often
satisfied with the solutions, if any.decide not to communicate openly and problems
It is important for managers to recognize andcan grow over time. This will be especially true if
deal with conflict. Sometimes it is best to just letthe manager tends to use the forcing technique
things be. If a manager feels that not dealing withto problem management.
the problem would be better than if he or she did,Believing that solutions can be found which will
then perhaps that is the best course of action.satisfy all parties is the first step toward
Unfortunately, most problems don't just go away,successfully solving a problem. The parties need
and festering anger can eat away at morale andto admit that there is a problem and get it out in
get in the way of effective decision-making.the open. Management should encourage this and
There are five main strategies for resolvinglet employees know that conflict is normal. The
conflict. These are:problem should be analyzed by both parties, with
1. Avoidancethe manager as the intermediary. By accepting
2. Accommodatingemployees' concerns, managers can encourage an
3. Forcingattitude that will help problem solving. The parties
4. Compromisecan then come up with options for solving the
5. Problem Solvingproblem and agree on a final solution.
Avoidance is sometimes the best course ofManaging conflict is a normal aspect of business
action. Often time will fix whatever problem hasoperations. Although managers do have to
existed and trying to fix it yourself will just makededicate much of their time to conflict
it worse. Still this rarely works. More often thanmanagement, successfully doing so can be good
not, avoiding conflict is just a sign of an inability tofor the long-term performance of the company.
successfully manage problems. The conflictTo effectively solve conflicts, managers need to
avoider often develops rationales for the conflict,recognize the factors that cause it and try to
dodges meetings or conversations where conflictimplement strategies for solving problems in a
is present, and hopes the conflict will resolve itselfconstructive way.
on its own.